Many people move too quickly when it comes to networking (or they just don’t do it at all). They want to meet someone and immediately sell them on their services, but good networking doesn’t work like that. It’s not about making sales; it’s about… expanding your network.
This article will cover common networking mistakes and how to network in-person and online, especially for introverts. Let’s dive in!
Truths about networking
There are some simple truths when it comes to networking that you must keep in mind. First, you want to connect with people authentically, and you don’t want to hound them. Most people are open to meeting new people and want you to reach out, but they also don’t want to feel like they have a stalker. So, balance is key when reaching out online or in person.
The second is that this isn’t a sales call. Most of the work you’ll receive will be from the by-product of your networking. People work with people they like. If people know what you do and they like you, then when they have some work available that fits your services, they’ll contact you. You’ll be the first person they think of because they like you. All of this sort of goes away if you start pressuring people to buy from you the first time you meet them.
The networking formula for creatives
This formula can help you craft your initial message in a way that won’t turn people off. Each piece can be added in a small way to give your message a bigger impact and help it to be well-received
- Explain your trigger: the reason or compelling event that sparked you to reach out.
- Show genuine interest: be specific to the person you’re talking to.
- Make the ask: a simple ask with low commitment.
- Offer reassurance: let them know you aren’t selling something.
- Add value: this can be small and personal.
Here’s an example of it in action:
“I hope you’re well. I drive by the POM Wonderful office on Olympic every day on my commute, and I thought I’d reach out and say hello. My two-year-old absolutely loves Halo’s; what two-year-old doesn’t? I think you guys have done a stellar job of positioning that brand; there’s a lot to learn from POM’s approach to branding and marketing. Since we’re so close, I’d love to grab coffee one morning and talk shop. No sales, no ulterior motive, I promise. Are you free any morning next week? My treat, of course.”

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